What are you doing today?
If you want your life to change, you've got to DO stuff. Sitting around hoping for something to change is a powerless way to live. When you give your power away, you don't get to build the muscle of stepping INTO what you want. Taking actions toward a goal is the only way to create something new. Sometimes, the ability to see your life through the perspective of another, can cause new thought, which can give you CHOICE. Then it's up to you to either step in, or sit on the sidelines waiting to play. Once you know there's another option, one you hadn't thought before, it's hard to sit around. Especially if what you want is important.